MY GOOD MATE FROM STOCKTON 😭😭😭

Started by LIDDLE_TOWERS999, May 26, 2023, 03:20:50 PM

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LIDDLE_TOWERS999

Had cancer for 2 years now... He shouldn't be here... But he's used cannabis oil to keep him going... He was a fit strong 16 stone bloke but coz he's been only able to swallow liquids he's gone down to 10 stone....hes the bravest bloke I know and I know he's only got a few months left 😭😭😭

Gonna be gutted when he's gone 😔😔😔


Hi guys ,
Quick update on my situation oncology rang yesterday , and unfortunately despite the recent treatment and my best efforts the lymphatic disease continues to grow . Which means that there's no more they can do for me apart from starting immunotherapy as a palliative end of life treatment to try and buy time which means I'd be poorly all the time with no immune system and in hospital 2 weekly so either that or choose quality of life was all that can be offered.
So basically I've just got to crack on now as I am and see what happens. Keep fighting every day That's about it . Thanks for the support as always. I don't want sympathy comments plz we're not giving up just have to adjust the sails and catch the wind again . I might be slowly dying according to them but I'm not dying today so I'm gonna just live for today ,and keep smiling 🙂 .

Big love 💚🍁🙏💪
GET WELL SOON STEVE G

RiversideRifle

Sorry to hear that. Cancer is a right cunt.
UTB

LIDDLE_TOWERS999

Quote from: RiversideRifle on May 26, 2023, 03:37:27 PMSorry to hear that. Cancer is a right cunt.

It certainly is 😪😪😪

I met this lad through our lass 15 years ago... Coz she was best friends with his wife... What a fighter in life he is... And I'm gonna be gutted when he's gone 😢😢😢
GET WELL SOON STEVE G

erimus74

Quote from: LIDDLE_TOWERS999 (MODERATOR) on May 26, 2023, 03:20:50 PMHad cancer for 2 years now... He shouldn't be here... But he's used cannabis oil to keep him going... He was a fit strong 16 stone bloke but coz he's been only able to swallow liquids he's gone down to 10 stone....hes the bravest bloke I know and I know he's only got a few months left 😭😭😭

Gonna be gutted when he's gone 😔😔😔


Hi guys ,
Quick update on my situation oncology rang yesterday , and unfortunately despite the recent treatment and my best efforts the lymphatic disease continues to grow . Which means that there's no more they can do for me apart from starting immunotherapy as a palliative end of life treatment to try and buy time which means I'd be poorly all the time with no immune system and in hospital 2 weekly so either that or choose quality of life was all that can be offered.
So basically I've just got to crack on now as I am and see what happens. Keep fighting every day That's about it . Thanks for the support as always. I don't want sympathy comments plz we're not giving up just have to adjust the sails and catch the wind again . I might be slowly dying according to them but I'm not dying today so I'm gonna just live for today ,and keep smiling 🙂 .

Big love 💚🍁🙏💪

Sorry to hear of your mate & to read his words, what a brave man, as I said to Ken on a different post, life just is not fair

Best wishes to your friend Lids, he comes across as a genuinely nice bloke

LIDDLE_TOWERS999

Quote from: erimus74 on May 26, 2023, 03:51:25 PM
Quote from: LIDDLE_TOWERS999 (MODERATOR) on May 26, 2023, 03:20:50 PMHad cancer for 2 years now... He shouldn't be here... But he's used cannabis oil to keep him going... He was a fit strong 16 stone bloke but coz he's been only able to swallow liquids he's gone down to 10 stone....hes the bravest bloke I know and I know he's only got a few months left 😭😭😭

Gonna be gutted when he's gone 😔😔😔


Hi guys ,
Quick update on my situation oncology rang yesterday , and unfortunately despite the recent treatment and my best efforts the lymphatic disease continues to grow . Which means that there's no more they can do for me apart from starting immunotherapy as a palliative end of life treatment to try and buy time which means I'd be poorly all the time with no immune system and in hospital 2 weekly so either that or choose quality of life was all that can be offered.
So basically I've just got to crack on now as I am and see what happens. Keep fighting every day That's about it . Thanks for the support as always. I don't want sympathy comments plz we're not giving up just have to adjust the sails and catch the wind again . I might be slowly dying according to them but I'm not dying today so I'm gonna just live for today ,and keep smiling 🙂 .

Big love 💚🍁🙏💪

Sorry to hear of your mate & to read his words, what a brave man, as I said to Ken on a different post, life just is not fair

Best wishes to your friend Lids, he comes across as a genuinely nice bloke

Such a strong bloke mate... Knows he's dying but so positive and wants no negative comments 😢😢😢 I'm in a pub now drinking alcohol coz I can... But he can't 😪😪😪 I'm in tears because he doesn't deserve this shit...he doesn't want me round his gaff fussing over him so what do you do 😔😔😔
GET WELL SOON STEVE G

BoroRedKen

Sometimes lately i look up and call him upstairs a bastard. (God not my son or granddad ya morons!)

We have our own Ebby in pretty much the same boat and it breaks what is left of my heart even more.

I think i am "happy" that Carmen passed suddenly. Having a "final date" is something i could not bear tbh.

People like your pal Lids and Ebby are bigger and braver men than i could ever be.

Power to these fellas.

 :leo3:

TerryCochranesSocks

Bloody hell mate. That's shit.
You just being his mate will be all he wants, and all you can do.
Sounds like a good fella.



TMG501

Sorry to hear about your mate Lids. Be there for him as much as you can. Best wishes to him  :bigjack
It's What's In The Groove That Counts

RiversideRifle

Quote from: LIDDLE_TOWERS999 (MODERATOR) on May 26, 2023, 03:43:55 PM
Quote from: RiversideRifle on May 26, 2023, 03:37:27 PMSorry to hear that. Cancer is a right cunt.

It certainly is 😪😪😪

I met this lad through our lass 15 years ago... Coz she was best friends with his wife... What a fighter in life he is... And I'm gonna be gutted when he's gone 😢😢😢

Cherish him whilst he's here Lidds that's all you can do
UTB

Ebenezer Good

I spoke with my consultant today and he said things are picking up albeit slowly' I'm halfway through a 16 week course of treatment where I go to a day unit 3 times a week' strangely I still feel OK and none of my major organs or lymph nodes show any change' I can't be cured but hopefully it will buy me some time and maybe a miracle cure will be found at the 11th hour' sorry to hear about you're mate Lids' cancer is a bastard disease as we all know.

BoroRedKen

Slowly is much better than not moving.

Good news mate.

 :bigjack

Steboro

#11
Fuck Cancer.  Lots way too many to it.

My friend over here got walking phnunomia about 6 weeks ago.  Was in and out of hospital.  It has destroyed his heart.  His heart is now operating at 10%.  They trying to get him stabilized enough to move him to another hospital fir an immediate heart transplant.

I went see him on Sunday, it was awful seeing him like that.

He told me when his wife walked out he's accepted it that this could be the end for him, but he's gonna keep fighting as long as he can.  Heartbreaking to hear that from a good friend of 22 years.

His Mrs when she came back in the room, sitting behind me and laughing.  I said what ya laughing at?  She said you 2, no matter how serious things are you still rip the piss out of each other, and it's refreshing to see as everyone comes to visit and it's all morbid

Gotta keep his spirits high. 

Me I don't think I could handle it like he is doing, I would be a complete mess with stress.

Respect to all those that are fighting illnesses