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[Hound]

Misogynistic weird fucker.

[BoroRedKen]

There's a difference between me talking about my own family and someone else bringing them up for their own twisted and warped agenda. Sad cunt.

With respect SG (and in no way am i asking you not to have the right to respond) i ask you not to reply to anymore of these posts.

Families is a no no on here. Everybody knows that.
Even the "worst" dont do family on here.
Members can talk about their own family if they wish to do so but others are not allowed to mention others families in any way.

That is something the whole board agreed with.

Its hard enough "out there". We should never turn on each other on here.

I detest speaking like this. Im not into authority bollocks.

This is the side of forums i detest. But what am i supposed to do?..

Is that you waving a white flag? 🏳�

If I was caught out making false allegations, I'd want to defect too.

#BadMam

Thats enough Rutts.

Im being serious.

That last # is the final fucking straw.

I have let this go long enough now.

Apologise or you are gone.

You do what you gotta do but I'm not being moderated by someone who issues and maintains false allegations against me.

If you don't treat people equally, what do you expect?

Isn't that why we find FMTTM so objectionable?

Treat people equally? Fmttm? Would Badad have let you question him like this and you still be around?

The fact is i make the rules. I expect them to be followed.

You want real talk?
You are looking like a fucking bullyboy.
You have gone on at her for over a week now.

You cant see past the end of your fucking nose regarding what im trying to do with you re RR.
Do you really think i want to boot you?
But now i get the vibe you want me to get involved.
So consider me involved.

If you are that hell bent on being a bully and frankly a dick about this then how about you just fuck off by yourself?

There are no bars on the windows. The doors are not locked.
Go and fucking try this on Flyme or 1Boro or even fucking Facebook and see how tolerant they will be to you.

Answer this carefully.

Are you prepared to drop this?

Simple yes or no will suffice.

You are getting sin binned for 48hrs though.
Not because i want to act like this.
You have forced my hand Rutts. I shall give you a bit before the sin bin to reply.

It dont have to be like this Rutts.

You have become everything you say you hate.

What the fuck?

You are 1 cheeky cunt. Because im calling you out now as bullyboy fanny.

Make it fucking personal with me?

Go on.

I wont ban you now.

Come on then. Spit it out bully.

I aint no fucking "lass".

[fukyu]

Moderators should be arbitrators not instigators of disputes.

[Blott]

Is that you waving a white flag? 🏳�

that's a yes for me. I am glad I don't have daughters or granddaughters with lads like him about.

Just imagine creepy guys like you around children   

funnily enough I don't think the women on here I am the one to worry about

[RiversideRifle]

Rutters the wrongun 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎

[BoroRedKen]

Moderators should be arbitrators not instigators of disputes.

Give over!

If thats the case then YOU all should listen to them and do what you are told by them.

Instigator of what? Saying and commenting she feels strongly about? How many times have you been jumped on for an opinion that others might disagree with?

Blotty gets its by the bucketful!

I cannot ask mods just to be mods. They did not join up to be mods. Its something i have asked them to do.

They still have the same "rights" as other members. Still can post/start threads about certain stuff.
And they certainly have the right to defend themselves.

This has gone beyond a "he said she said" convo.

Its become quite alarming tbh.

The debate, facts and figures, debunking etc is good.

The "#" are a step too far.
Families is too much.

[BoroRedKen]

And to prove nobody is exempt from voicing an opinion here is mine personally.

With some of the comments from some "geezers" on here SG has every right to be concerned for her daughter and the future.

I am both appalled and surprised by Rutts.

Always respected the fact he aint shy about voicing his opinions (and he was never a prolific poster tbh) but this "tirade" is to much.

What i want to know from Rutts is would he be comfortable/happy if a bloke was talking like that to his Mrs, daughter or granddaughter? Regardless of whether he thought she was right or wrong?
It took a nasty turn that could so easily of been put to bed last week.

[BoroRedKen]

And Rutts can you not at least see im loathe to boot you?

Can we agree on that?.

The Nekder in me says "boot".

But the Kenny in me thinks we can resolve this. Or for once i have totally misread somebody?.

[fukyu]

I think your unconscious bias is showing,SG was giving out some unwarranted jibes because she lost her rag,Rutters gave it back in a slightly less dispassionate way,Clem got a bashing for the same reason,the board idiot chimed in and a few others against Rutters.There was shades of a flyme pile on.Just my assessment of it. Might have been an idea to wait a bit longer before moderating.

[BoroRedKen]

I think your unconscious bias is showing,SG was giving out some unwarranted jibes because she lost her rag,Rutters gave it back in a slightly less dispassionate way,Clem got a bashing for the same reason,the board idiot chimed in and a few others against Rutters.There was shades of a flyme pile on.Just my assessment of it. Might have been an idea to wait a bit longer before moderating.

Nope.

I have tried not to pull rank. I have tried to let it play out.

But it is now bullying.

You can disagree all you want.

"Unconscious Bias".

You do make me laugh i will give you that!
 

[fukyu]

I think your unconscious bias is showing,SG was giving out some unwarranted jibes because she lost her rag,Rutters gave it back in a slightly less dispassionate way,Clem got a bashing for the same reason,the board idiot chimed in and a few others against Rutters.There was shades of a flyme pile on.Just my assessment of it. Might have been an idea to wait a bit longer before moderating.

Nope.

I have tried not to pull rank. I have tried to let it play out.

But it is now bullying.

You can disagree all you want.

"Unconscious Bias".

You do make me laugh i will give you that!
 

It's learning curve and Things seem to have settled.
Unconscious bias is up there with eye rolling. It's a thing.

[BoroRedKen]

Normally i would chomp at something like that Coulbs.

But all the time i was under investigation over here becoming a place that promoted "racism" and "incitement" was it my "unconscious bias" that kept my trap shut and take it all?......

[BoroRedKen]

I think your unconscious bias is showing,SG was giving out some unwarranted jibes because she lost her rag,Rutters gave it back in a slightly less dispassionate way,Clem got a bashing for the same reason,the board idiot chimed in and a few others against Rutters.There was shades of a flyme pile on.Just my assessment of it. Might have been an idea to wait a bit longer before moderating.

Nope.

I have tried not to pull rank. I have tried to let it play out.

But it is now bullying.

You can disagree all you want.

"Unconscious Bias".

You do make me laugh i will give you that!
 

It's learning curve and Things seem to have settled.
Unconscious bias is up there with eye rolling. It's a thing.

I do take your last point though.